If you’re the expert, then tee off from the front tees. Male or female, place the emphasis on being in play.
You’re not showing off how far you hit it. (By the way, quietly check if your percentage of fairways hit has improved,
if you club down to fairway or hybrid).
Let your non-golfers, or inexperienced golfers, tee off from where they like. If they’ve never played golf,
or have just started learning, we’d suggest 50 yards from the green. There’s no point having non-golfers hit from bunkers.
Let them throw it out. This isn’t competitive. Make it a family better-ball score.